You also have to realize that you deserve someone who can’t live without YOU. If they can, they’re not it. I was given the best advice recently: You need to start making people prove that they are worth it. Instead of giving yourself away.
Changed my entire life. It was so clear. You think that it makes you a good person to give and give and give. And it does. You are. But you have to look at who you’re giving to. Do they deserve you? No, really? Think about it. Do they deserve you? If the answer is no. If they aren’t matching or exceeding what you offer, there is no excuse. No “they had a hard childhood” or “they never learned to love.” Go learn to love and then holler at me. Go get some therapy and then holler at me.
I’m not giving you what you don’t have to give me.